Become dispensable. You heard me.

OK, I’m back. Did you miss me? No? Good. Why? Read on. January blogs and posts are normally variants on “It’s a brand new start!” or “Make the new year your best year yet!” There’s nothing wrong with these – goodness knows I’ve done them before, albeit with a twist – but after being away, I’ve been… Continue reading Become dispensable. You heard me.

An Opinionated Dame’s Advice On Absolutely Everything You Should Be Doing

  Well. Almost everything. And the opinionated dame? Me. Here it all is: my best advice for 2015, shortened to a few words that will get 2016 cranking for you. Don’t waste your time or money on Learning and Development. I mean really. Unless you have trust, you’re dead where you stand. Don’t waste time chasing… Continue reading An Opinionated Dame’s Advice On Absolutely Everything You Should Be Doing

The Threshold of Trust: Trusting Yourself

I’m still good friends with most of the people in the divorce support group of when I was in the thick of it ten years ago. A lot has happened since then, and one of the most interesting things has been how many of us have opted to not pursue any romantic relationships. There’s the… Continue reading The Threshold of Trust: Trusting Yourself